If I were to describe Thanksgiving 2016 in a couple of words, I would choose therapeutic and life-giving. At the time, our little family lived on the edge of Accra, Ghana’s esteemed capital. Ten
fruit trees and a rectangle of grass grew on our property, but otherwise, the rest of our premises was man-made: a cement house, large gray brick courtyard, and a high wall that outlined the perimeter of our property and obstructed our view
of the neighborhood. When I left our courtyard, it often meant going deeper
into the city where there were, of course, more cement buildings. Tall ones. Unfinished
ones with rebar poking crookedly from second stories. Buildings with crumbling
concrete or brilliant paint. The streets were clogged with the chaos and
commotion of too many cars and too little parking.
On
Thanksgiving weekend, we traveled four hours to celebrate the holiday with
other Americans. Our hosts’ home had a spacious backyard that ran in grassy
exuberance up to the Atlantic’s rocky shore. The expansive ocean was
wonderfully therapeutic to my city-sore eyes. The salty breeze that blew inland
brought a welcome change from the stale air stirred by our lazy ceiling fans.
On
that Sunday morning, a group of us gathered beneath a red-and-blue-striped
canopy. I listened to the message, truly. But at first my attention was glued
to that majestic ocean. I could see miles of surging water between me and the
horizon. Hand-crafted fishing boats that carried men to prime fishing spots
bobbed on undulating waves. A mast from a sunken ship poked tenaciously above
the water, then disappeared beneath higher crests, adding mystery and intrigue
to the scene. Nearer to me, waves crashed against the rocky shore and exploded
into liquid fireworks.
But
the scenery wasn’t the only thing I would carry away.
The
speaker that morning was a stranger to me, a visitor named Leonard Meador. He
and his wife were traveling with an aid organization and happened to be in the
area for Thanksgiving. In his message, Leonard told us that he received a
cancer diagnosis and a grim prognosis several years earlier. At the moment,
Leonard’s life was no longer threatened by rogue cells, thanks to successful
treatments, but he spoke candidly with no noticeable self-pity of those
difficult days.
“When
I awoke each morning, I chose thankfulness because I knew that regardless of my
circumstances, there is always, always something to be thankful for.”
Thankful?
When his world and maybe his very life was crumbling? I forgot the waves and
the ocean. These were not empty platitudes spoken from pharisaic lips. They
were words coming from a man who had chosen daily gratitude in the face of
death.
Leonard
continued. “I knew I always had something to thank God for because of these
absolutes:
- God is still on the throne.
- Jesus is preparing a place for those who love Him.
- Our God, unlike the gods of other religions, loves us and
wants a relationship with His children.
- Jesus saves us from our sins."
I
pocketed the crux of Leonard’s message and carried it with me to Accra, through
the end of our term in Ghana, and eventually back to America. Especially during
Thanksgiving season, I remember this message and consider the absolutes within
it again. Regardless of my disappointments and unfulfilled dreams, regardless
of failure, regardless of kidnappings and political unrest and pandemic
complications that can unsettle me, there is always, always something to
thank God for.
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