Wednesday, November 29, 2017

A Pictorial Weekend of Thanks

One of my life's goals is to become a spontaneously thankful, joyous person. I wish it came naturally for me, but it doesn't. So, I have tried to purposely cultivate an attitude of gratitude by keeping an ongoing list of things that bring happiness and beauty to life. This blog title "Dewdrops of Joy" is also a reflection of my efforts at finding joy in life's little things. 

I love, then, a dedicated season of thanks such as America's Thanksgiving holiday provides. 

This year we celebrated by hosting American friends on Thanksgiving Day with the traditional side dishes and the non-traditional chicken. I bought a tiny chicken (it fit in my bread pan) as a token of the turkey and to give us something to carve. Otherwise, we served chicken legs/thighs that were cheaper to come by.

Notice the "turkey" in the center of the tray
Using a (clean) bed sheet as a table cloth and some simple fall decor, we had a pretty table. 
I created the place cards using an oatmeal box and
a used birthday card. Fun!

Of course, we had to have the pumpkin-shaped dinner rolls which have become a Thanksgiving tradition.


Everyone took turns sharing non-traditional things we were thankful for, so instead of saying expected things like "food and family," our lists were laced with the unexpected: 
  • That the electric wires above our compound haven't burned through. They are fraying so every time a bird sits on them, the dangling part touches the wire below. It sparks and sizzles but hasn't burned through.
  • That I didn't give birth in an Accra traffic jam. 
  • And the butter-lover who only gets it on rare occasions like Thanksgiving: "I'm thankful for real butter!"
Afterwards, I soaked the dishes to make them easy to wash later and we all did a Scavenger Hunt outside. Losers were awarded with dishes duty. 


The Scavenger Hunt was fun. You could take pictures or bring the item itself. And if you couldn't find it, you were welcome to draw it with sidewalk chalk. 

the List
 
"One dozen."

"Something stuck." Wedging a coconut
in the porch rails worked nicely. 
Friends in Cape Coast invited us for the weekend. We stayed with a sweet couple who took excellent care of us, and we soaked up talk-time with Christian friends. Five different missions were represented for a day of thanksgiving and fellowship.


We also had a time of prayer and blessings as a good-bye for colleagues who completed their ten-year commitment as headmaster of a school our mission began in a village nearly 20 years ago. The school has been successfully handed over to like-minded Ghanaians who will continue its operations with the same values and goals it has always had. While the transfer is a good thing, we will dearly miss our friends.

So thankful that there will be no goodbyes in heaven!
On the way home, Tyler was able to have octopus for the first time and enjoyed it, even though I think it tastes like fish-flavored balloons.


I trust you have had a blessed weekend as well. In the comments below, tell me something you are grateful for. Friends and family, food and health have already been said (wink), so you need to think of something less commonly mentioned.

Sunday, November 12, 2017

A Middle Eastern Miracle

The major details of the following story is true. It took place in early spring of 2010 and was shared at a mission's conference. No names of tribe, town, or people were given. But the story gave me goosebumps so I wrote it down both for myself and for you so you, too, can be inspired by our God who is unbound. His Word will go forth among the nations! 
                                                                 
     
Somewhere on the edge of a Turkish village, a man in his woke up, wiped the last of the sleep from his eyes, and shook his head in wonder and amazement. Dawn had hardly come to the hills when he stepped across the threshold of his room and felt for his shoes in the dusty light. Again he shook his head as though to clear the remnants of the dream from it. The dream had been so real, so commanding that he, an adult, was shaken by it and was on his way to discuss it with his father.

In spite of the early hour, the old man was not alone. A number of men from the village were congregated in his room. The newcomer greeted the old man respectfully and then greeted the others, all of whom looked thoughtful and sat in silence.

The old man looked at his son and said, “What is it, my son?”

The young man looked hesitant for a moment and then said quietly and respectfully, “My father, I have come to you this morning for some advice. You see, I have had a dream.”

A murmur ran through the room. He stopped. “What is it, my father? Is something wrong?”

The old man held up a hand which silenced the group, “Go on.”

The young man began again and recounted his dream. “In my dream, somebody told me that I should go to a tree between two certain towns and wait. There I was told that someone would bring a Book that would explain to me the Way, the Truth, and the Life. It was a very clear dream, almost like I was commanded to go. I was coming to you for advice.”

Expressions of amazement and wonder rippled through the room. When the sound of the men’s voices faded away again, the old man looked at his son and said, “Something has happened in the night. All of us have had the same dream you have shared. Men,” and the old man looked around the room, “we need to discuss what action we are going to take. Let’s call all the men together to take council in this. We cannot ignore this dream. It could be that the Creator God wants to speak to us about this Way, this Truth, and this Life that we know nothing of.”

The men dispersed. Across the village, the atmosphere was nearly electric with the wonder and excitement of the night’s happening, for every man had had the same dream.

The council was called, the dream recounted and discussed, and the decision was finalized to send two men to the tree. The old chieftain said, “It is a long journey, so we need to choose men who are willing to suffer the hardships of travel.”

A delegation was chosen and commissioned by the old man, “Go! Go to the tree in our dreams. Bring back the Book and inform us about the Way, the Truth, and the Life.” 

The men were anxious to begin their journey, as strange as it was, and lost no time in preparation.  Before the first rays of light had dawned on the new day, they had bid farewell to their village and began the journey. The shortest way to the tree of their destination was a several days’ journey through a dusty wilderness. At last they joined a main road and estimated they had only a few miles to go. Hot and tired, but filled with intense anticipation, the men approached the Iran-Turkey border specified in their dream.

One of them spoke, in an almost reverent tone, “This is the place in my dream.”

His friends agreed. “This is our tree.”

Upon arriving at the tree, the men looked expectantly around the desolate area, thinking perhaps someone would be waiting for them. There was no one. No person, no Book; just nothing.

Shelving their disappointment, the men agreed to set up camp and wait. Surely the Giver of Dreams wouldn’t forget to send the Book to them. Wearily, the men pitched their tents and fell asleep. With great expectation, the men spent the following day beneath the tree, watching and waiting. High noon came, evening drew nigh, and then night fell. No one had come. No one had even passed along the road. Again they lay down to sleep, hoping against hope that on the morrow, someone would come. And thus they passed not just one day, but two.

As dusk fell on the second day, they held a mini council meeting to decide what they should do. The provisions they brought were getting low. “Let’s wait,” one of them suggested. “Let’s wait one more day.”

Across the border, a Bible study group made up entirely of local believers was praying and seeking the Lord secretly, as they did every week. It was late at night when one of the men stood up and said, “I feel the Holy Ghost is speaking to me and telling me to go across the border into Turkey. I don’t know where I am to go, exactly, but I feel very strongly that I should go.”

“I feel the same way, Brother,” another man said.

Confident of God’s clear bidding, three of them obeyed the Spirit of God, took their well-worn, carefully guarded Bibles, and immediately embarked on a journey they knew little about. Bathing each mile in prayer lest they be stopped by unhappy authorities, they crossed the border with no interference and drove down a deserted road.

Clouds began forming and a wind began to blow. They hadn’t gone far when the downpour began. It was as though the windows of heaven had been opened and it poured down rain! The car slowed to a crawl, inching its way through the sheets of water, but the men realized it was futile to keep moving. Visibility was basically zero and the darkness was deep. In the slippery mud, the car slid off the road and ended harmlessly in a ditch.  

Questions formed. Had they misread the leading of the Lord? No, surely not, for all of them felt the leading was as clear as it was strong, but it was obvious they would not be going any further until daylight, stranded as they were in the middle of nowhere with nothing but their Bibles. Eventually the ferocity of the storm began to subside until it was just a heavy drizzle.


As they reclined in their seats, waiting for sleep to overtake them, the men were jerked awake by a knock on the window. Startled, they looked over and were surprised to see a lone man standing by the car, drenched with the rain. When they cracked opened a window, the man in the rain leaned forward with hope and expectation in his eyes and said, “Did you bring the Book that explains the Way, the Truth, and the Life?”
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Sunday, November 5, 2017

Short on Sleep, Long on Grace

I spent the night with a stomach bug this past week, and divided my wee morning hours between the physiological needs of myself and those of our 2-month-old baby. When dawn finally broke to end a miserable night, I was still exhausted. All I wanted to do was curl up in bed and spend a few more hours between the sheets. But as a mom, I have responsibilities that veto my chances of signing off duty. Our children would need to be homeschooled. They would come with stories for me to express interest in and would bring their troubles for me to solve. The baby would need my attention. I had little heart to do any of it in my tired state until I thought of Jesus and a lesson I recently learned from His life.

I picked up my Bible one bleary-eyed morning a few weeks ago and started reading mid-chapter where I had left off the last time. It was in the Gospel of John and the story of Jesus' arrest. After being taken out of the garden, He was made to stand before religious leaders and the governor where he was questioned and accused. Then there was a little phrase in the NIV that said, "By now it was early morning. . ."

That little phrase stopped me. I scanned back across previous verses that talked about it being cold enough that fires were started for men to warm themselves. Jesus spent a long, cold night being questioned and falsely accused. Yet even with the heavy emotional and physical demands, he always spoke with wisdom and demonstrated tremendous self-control. 

I faced my day a little differently after reading that story. Though my situation was vastly different than His, Jesus knew what it was like to have a tiring night without being able to sign off the grid in the morning. He chose grace.

I'm definitely still learning this lesson; I function way better when I'm well-rested. But Jesus' example on that dark, cold night shoots down self-pity's excuses and pushes me on to experience deeper levels of what His grace can do in me.

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Some days require less grit and grace to enjoy them fully. Today it was raining and overcast, which is my all-time favorite type of day. The children played in the large puddle at the edge of our property until they were filthy and freezing and came shivering to the door. I wasn't exactly in the mood to deal with dirty footprints, muddy clothing, and extra baths, but with rainy season quickly coming to an end, I didn't have the heart to make the children stay inside. Playing in the rain is one of their favorite things to do.

My way of enjoying the rain was a little different than splashing in puddles. Even before the baby was born, I dreamed of taking him onto the porch some rainy day so I could snuggle him in a blanket while it was cool enough to do so. Today was the second time that happened. He cooperated nicely, but I have a feeling I was the one who loved it the most.


Enjoying the rain from the porch
before seeking permission to play
in the puddles